HELLO! We are here in Lviv, Ukraine, after a very drawn-out flight from SLC (via Detroit, Amsterdam, and Kyiv).
In short:
All is well. We are building a comfortable life here. Our host family is great; they love Aaron and he loves them. Lviv is beautiful--much more European than our usual Russian style. We are studying Ukrainian and it is going fairly slowly but is still fun.
In long:
When we got on a tiny crop-duster soviet airplane (that no doubt had duct tape somewhere holding important parts together) in Kiev after 20+ hours of traveling, we looked and each other and said, "We must be crazy." Aaron was very upset to have to wake up in the middle of the night (which was mid-day local time) to switch planes, we were sleep-deprived with yuckied airplane stomachs, and still had hours to go before our destination. But, we continued on, and things have gotten nothing but better since then. Our host dad Mihailo was there to pick us up at the airport, and he along with Viktor (one of the program supervisors) greeted us with smiles when we walked out.
When we got back to our place, we met the rest of our host family: Daria, Oksyana, and Ihor. Daria, the mom, is a pediatrician; Oksyana, their daughter, lives there with her husband Ihor. They are expecting their first baby in October. We live in a four bedroom (which we would have never dreamed of) upstairs of a house a little outside of the city. The living conditions are great. There is a little boy who lives on the bottom floor (he's Daria's nephew) who Aaron plays with occasionally. There is some sand in the driveway they play in. Our neighborhood is very friendly and safe, with good air, to boot.
Aaron understands Ukrainian and Russian now, at least as far as we can tell. He really likes Daria and Oksana both, whom he stays with in the mornings when we have class. It is really hard for me to be away from him but I keep reminding myself that it's not for a long time, and that it will be good in the long run for everyone. Even if Aaron never actually speaks a word of Ukrainian, the language is helping him.
We trust our family with Aaron. Of course there are some things they do that we don't agree with that we let them get away with--like letting him watch tv and eat cheesecake--but oh well. I figure there are some things that we have to be willing to sacrifice as the price for dragging our baby across the world. Another one of those things is a good night's sleep. Since he's still not used to the time, he wakes up a few hours after going to sleep. So we bring him to bed and I nurse him to help him fall asleep. Sometimes he goes back to sleep right away, and sometimes he just kind of talks to himself for awhile. One night, it was so funny, he had woken up and I was trying to get him to go back to sleep, when he sat up straight and proclaimed, "Bubbles!" Hehe. He had, just that day, started saying bubbles. We brought some with us and he likes to play with them on the balcony. He asks for them quite often. I decided that "bubbles" is going to become an acceptable Ukrainian word (at least in a small group) because our family all says it, along with seven-year-old Danusa, one of Daria's grandkids.
Aaron has had a bit of a cold, but Daria just got out her little stethoscope at the first sign of a cough and checked out his lungs. She said they sounded okay, but his snot was thick and green and had a nasty congested sound in his cough so she prescribed some antibiotic syrup. Some of you might be worried about Aaron taking weird medicines, but don't worry: this syrup is the same kind I used to take when I was a kid. I know because I tried it.
One more thing about Aaron before I move on: He loves borscht! Daria made it for us and he couldn't get enough of it. And, much to our delight, Ben and I figured out a possible reason why it's always written "borscht" in English: that's how you say it in Ukrainian! And the soup is (supposedly) originally Ukrainian! So that makes so much sense now. We were so blind before, back in the olden days when we only spoke Russian. {haha}
So, yeah, we are studying Ukrainian. It's definitely fun, but weird. Ben is doing a great job of just jumping into it. I had a hard time in the beginning being convinced that I really needed to speak it. Everyone understands Russian, so it's so easy to just speak Russian instead. And it's crazy because there are so many words taht are the same in both languages that sometimes it's hard to tell which language somebody is speaking. But basically the way that we speak Ukrainian is by speaking Russian with Ukrainian grammar as well as we know it, but substituting the Ukrainian words we know for their Russian equivalents. As time goes by, we learn better Ukrainian grammar and more words so our speech is getting slightly closer to actual Ukrainian, but I have a feeling that even by the time we leave we will still be speaking a hybrid of the two. Ben and I have a suspicion that our host family speaks a hybrid most of the time to us too, so we hardly even know what real Ukrainian is. (Maybe nobody does...)
This city is beautiful. There is a definite Soviet-feel to everything but much less so than the other Ukrainian and Russian cities we have been to. One thing that we've noticed is that people are considerably nicer here. Not sure why, but oh well. That's just what we've noticed.
The food here is just as I had expected, although it is much greasier than I remembered. Since there aren't microwaves, their way of reheating things is re-frying, with a new slab of grease and everything. I have gotten so used to eating such plain foods: plain oatmeal, salad with little or no dressing, etc. Here I don't think I've been served anything that wasn't either creamy or oily. Milk is fresh and yummy, but basically cream. Oh well.
Okay, I'm anxious to get back to Aaron so I will end this now. I will try to keep posting every once in awhile. Next time I will try to post pictures. I think I can, I will just have to download hello. Hopefully it won't be a problem. In the meantime, know that Aaron is still incredibly cute. :)